For women, flirting is mainly done by body language. This is an important factor for letting men know that there is an interest in them. Using free online dating sites makes it a little harder, since visual contact is limited. However, there are still a number of ways that a woman can flirt with a man, and get him to notice her interest. Using emails and knowing the right questions or comments to write, will entice men to talk to you.
When writing emails, you should aim to keep them simple. Avoid going into great details and making long mails for people to read. Try and keep your tone light and upbeat, always sounding positive in what you say. When asking questions, make sure that you keep them simple and with a flirtatious tone. For example, you could ask, “if you were to take me out on a romantic date, what we would do?” This is a simple question yet suggests that you may be open to going out with him. Another question could be, “If we were going to the cinema, what movie would you take me to see?”
If you have been communicating for a while and feel that you understand his humor, you can use this too. Being humorous and playfully teasing can be a turn on for some people. It is a good way to lighten the mood while at the same time allowing you to gauge whether the other person is easy going or particularly stiff in his character. Most people enjoy a good bit of humor, and it can serve as a good ice breaker before asking a more serious question. If you are not good at this, do not worry as there are other ways to flirt without making yourself feel uncomfortable.
Women love compliments, and so do men. Try to pay a compliment when you see the opportunity to do so. You could compliment him on his profile picture by telling him how handsome he looks, or complementing him on the clothes he is wearing. There will be many things you can point out to make your potential man feel good and show that you like what he has in the picture.
Make sure to be sincere when handing out compliments, otherwise you may find yourself in an awkward position. For example, if he sends you a sound clip of him playing a guitar, do not say you like it if you don’t, otherwise he could end up sending you loads more.
By keeping these tips in mind, you will find it becomes a lot easier to successfully flirt with your potential man.